You.

You’re not that special.

Putting it out there. I understand that people use this statement a lot to give out hope and help someone who doesn’t think highly of themselves but the truth of the matter , the whole point of this statement, is to motivate. It’s supposed to encourage you to dream and achieve higher, not stuff 50 marshmallows in your mouth and scream ‘Chubby Bunny’

Just because you’re not that special doesn’t mean your thoughts aren’t too. Your thoughts are the only possible special thing about you. Your emotions make you who you are. They craft and shape your whole life. They’re the only reason you’re bleaching your fucking hair. *

Though feelings are beautiful, they sometimes have tendencies to backfire. They sometimes make you spiral down a hole that you may have to try really hard to get out of or they just let you just daydream about all the things you love and want to just slyly push you out of the reality. Both of them are extremes and incredibly terrible.

That’s where your peculiar self showes up. It’s on you to decide whether you’re getting yourself into the extremes and living in an imaginary bubble that you’ve created for yourself or putting a balance to everything and creating your reality. Your ability to be brave and survive in this cruel world is what makes you, you. That’s what makes you special.

*Please don’t bleach your hair if you don’t know what the fuck you’re doing. 80% chance it’s going to go horribly wrong. If the break-up was that bad, just tell everyone he’s got a small peepee. Case closed.